So how have y'all been?
Well I have a little something to say and I can tell ya that when I first found out I was beyond pissed.
A while back I went to Ohio to visit a friend and my sister. Well two days before I left my daughters biological father contacted her through her friend.
To some of you, you're thinking well what is wrong with that? I am going to tell you what the problem is. He hasn't had anything to do with her since she was born. At one point he made the comment that she wasn't his. He left 2 months after she was born to be with someone that was 4 years younger than me. I was 18 and he was 20. Yea!
So 2 days before I left he contacted her. She of course didn't say anything to either me or her dad. <----Mertis. She let it go for quite a while. Until well after I had gotten back. She was calling and talking to him the whole time! He has filled her head with all kinds of crap. Like for instance; I have always wanted to meet you; or I pay child support; or your mom has kept you away from me (well that is kinda true but he is a dope head and I wanted nothing to do with him); or, and this is my favorite, let me tell you all of the things that your mom did when she was a teen.
HOW DARE YOU CONTACT THE CHILD THAT I HAVE RAISED FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS AND TELL HER LIES SO SHE MAY LIKE YOU!!!! THEN TURN THE TABLES AND MAKE IT SEEM LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN THE PERFECT PERSON AND THAT YOU HAVE PAID CHILD SUPPORT AND BEEN LOOKING FOR HER FOR THE PAST 15 FUCKING YEARS!!!!! YOU HAVE NOT DONE ANY OF THAT! I HAVEN'T SEEN A DIME FROM YOU IN I CAN'T EVEN REMEMBER HOW LONG. YOU HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR HER? REALLY? WELL MY GRANDMA HAS LIVED IN THE SAME HOUSE FR 30+ YEARS! HAVE YOU GONE THERE LOOKING FOR HER? NO ASS, YOU HAVEN'T!!!!
Pfft, please tell us all another lie. I had to sit MY child down and explain to her the reason why she wasn't allowed to speak to your ass!
1. you are an addict that can't stay away from the drugs!
2. you have failed to raise the other 6 kids that you have!
3. you are a pathological liar!
4. you are a worthless piece of trash that only looks out for himself!
5. you have yet to keep a job!
6. you are in jail more than you are out of it!
Damn I could go on and on and on!!! Please find one of your other kids to try and love. Stay the hell away from the one that I am almost done with!
I really hate the deadbeats that think that because she is 15, and she is so close to graduating from High School and moving on to college that you can just step back in and be "a part of her life" now! Screw you! She is the product of me and my husband knowing what love is and knowing how to show a child that love and support! She is not a product of you and your lying cheating ways! You are a worthless piece of trash that is to scared to contact me to talk to her! Instead you have to drag two 15 year olds into your fucked up world!
Being a parent is hard y'all.